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Donald Frank Ensign, beloved husband, father, grandfather, and great-grandfather, passed away peacefully in his home on September 26th, 2024, surrounded by his loving family.
Don was born on September 27, 1931, to Frank Hyde Ensign and Winifred Cedarstrom Ensign. He always expressed gratitude for his wonderful parents and idyllic childhood. He was raised on Michigan Avenue in Salt Lake City, but his family property at Pelican Point on Utah Lake was his playground. Don developed a deep connection to nature that lasted throughout his life. He could often be found skiing, boating, hunting, or fishing, always in his element under the open sky. Don's athleticism extended well beyond his younger years—he played football for East High, biked regularly, boated, and rollerbladed well into his 70s.
Don met his future wife, Phyllis Bench, at Roosevelt Junior High, where Phyllis fondly referred to him as “a true Casanova.” However, it wasn’t until their freshman year at the University of Utah that Don’s attention finally turned her way. From that moment on, their story became one of deep love and partnership.
During the Korean War, Don joined the Air National Guard, serving in a fighter unit’s cryptographic section. It was during this time that Don also joined The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, and his faith became a guiding light in his life.
During his service in the war, Don continued to court Phyllis through letters. They were married on July 16, 1953, in the Salt Lake Temple, and together, they spent the next several decades building a life full of love, laughter, and family in East Millcreek. As a devoted disciple of Christ, Don served in many roles, including as a missionary in the Cannon 1st Ward, where he ministered to refugees.
After graduating from the University of Utah in banking and finance, Don joined his father and brother in the family insurance business. His dedication and skill were evident as he earned the distinguished CPCU and CLU credentials, demonstrating his excellence and integrity in the field.
Don had a unique ability to connect with both children and animals, perhaps because of his own childlike curiosity and gentle spirit. His grandchildren felt joy by merely being in his presence because of his demonstration of love and kindness and his incredibly endearing sense of humor. His Mr. Rogers-like creativity, combined with his sense of adventure, made for unforgettable memories with the grandkids. We’ll never forget his soft-spoken nature, always accompanied by a twinkle in his eye and a mischievous smile. Don's home and heart were always filled with animal life. A few pets of note: a donkey and llamas, a pot-bellied pig, and even a coyote. But it was his dogs that held a special place in his heart. He counted them among his best friends, especially his beloved golden retrievers, Duchess and Dolly, who were the source of endless joy.
Don’s youthful spirit made him a perfect fit for his years of service as a scoutmaster in the Boy Scouts of America. His natural leadership and love for the outdoors made him a beloved mentor to countless young men, and he was honored with the Silver Beaver Award for his significant impact on their lives.
Don enjoyed traveling with his family. He spent his retirement exploring the world, but his favorite places were always closer to home. He loved spending time with his family at their cabin in Island Park, Idaho; Snowbird, Utah; and, of course, Pelican Point.
In later years, Don discovered a passion for photography, capturing breathtaking moments from his travels as well as candid shots of his family. His home became a gallery of his award-winning work, reflecting his love for both the physical world and the people around him. Don’s curiosity extended beyond the camera lens—he had a keen interest in human psychology and found joy in learning about personality traits through the Color Code. He was a lifelong learner, constantly seeking new skills and insights, and he never lost his passion for discovering more about the world and the people in it.
As a family, we would like to thank his caregivers at Valeo Hospice, especially Kylee, along with the dear friends and neighbors who lovingly lifted his spirits as his health declined.
Don is preceded in death by his parents, his brother Howard, and his beloved wife Phyllis. He is survived by his six children—Kathy Ensign England, Stephen Ensign (Colleen), Karen Conley, Margie Marsden (Tim), Richard Ensign (Margaret), and Suzie Bean (Steve)—along with his biggest fans: 32 grandchildren and 58 great-grandchildren. His legacy of love, kindness, and adventure lives on in each of them.
Funeral services can be watched at the following:
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